Chapter 3: Harry S. Truman

Chapter 3: Harry S. Truman
The First Decision: The Buck Stops Here

1. President Harry Truman tells David, “You have chosen the pathway to your present destination. The responsibility for your situation is yours.” Do you believe that an individual’s present state is solely determined by personal choice and responsibility? Why or why not?
Personal choice is definitely key in what happens to an individual. We deal with this issue with our kids: when they are upset at someone or something, we encourage them to flip the switch. It is their choice whether or not they remain upset, or if they put that in the past, forgive others, and move on. If we hold on to the frustrations in life, then we will be frustrated. But, if we learn from them and find ways to grow out of the fire, then we can emerge a stronger individual because of our choices.

2. Truman says, “Our thinking creates a pathway to success or failure.” Can you remember a particular instance when your thinking created success? Can you remember a particular instance when your thinking led to failure? Have you seen evidence of this truism in the lives of others?
Again, I have seen this lived out in our children. I know that if I am thinking negatively, my reactions to what others say will tend to be negative, whether or not that is voiced. Internally, I need to make an intentional change.

3. Why does Andrews consider challenges a gift?
Challenges are a gift that help direct us in choices that we make. God allows us to go through certain challenges in order for us to learn from others, but also to help others who may be experiencing the same issues or can apply the principles learned to their situation. Fundamentals--as mentioned by the Diamonds.

I will not let my history control my destiny.